This is so true. Look at me, for example. I am not doing anything to the extremes so I'll never get the "best user in [insert something here]" even tough I'm doing average daily in about all class.
Just because I'm, like, in fire, and nobody want to come close and pet me. They always come with ridiculous reasons like "I'll get burned if I do that!" or "It's way too hot in here"... But I need affection like everyone else! Watching flames dancing around me is boring after a long while...