[Tom Henrik]

Let's leave the actual decision about abortion to the women. Who are we to say what a woman should do?

If you are in a relationship and expect a child (and the two of you are considering an abortion), then, and only then, is a man entitled to an opinion in the matter. But he should only be there are as an advisor and weight the responsibilities up against the current situations. He should say what he fears about having a baby and what he looks forward to. The final decision lies with the woman, and if the man has any moral at all, he'll stick to her decision and support her actions.