@Indignus: I'm saying I used to be fat. Was I any lesser person back then? I just think setting the limits by 70kg's is too superficial. When I was 75+ kilos, I had a boyfriend who was around 50-60, he was the one all the girls were drooling over. Then I lost weight, later we broke up, I started dating this other guy. He's around 100kg, not exactly a stud on the surface. But he's the most wonderful guy I've ever met, he's chubby, he's cute, he's my teddybear.
So... should i say "oh the other one was a stud, everybody wants him he can have every girl he wants, I don't want to settle with the 100kg who happens to be much smarter, sensitive, sweet, funny, doesn't do drugs and is overall a better guy, he's too fat." ?
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