As much as some peolpe (kids :bleh: ) will hate me for it, I gonna say it anyway. You are still little (young, children). True, you're not little babies anymore and many of you may be quite mature (I've met 12 year-olds with more common sense then 40 year-olds), but trust me on this one - when you get above 20 you'll look back at your life and you'll see how childish you were at the age of 12/13/14.
It's all perfectly natural - after all at that time you'll be older and will know/experianced much more life (it's one thing to try something, but it's a different thing to actually be living something). You'll see when you'll become fully independant.
How to know when you're fully independant?
1) You start thinking what are you going to eat next (you'll either start making your own meals or start going out and pay for your meals yourself - no body else will interfeere with our eating habbits)
2) You'll be doing your own laundry (you'll have to use the washing machine yourself - and you'll have to start buying your own washing powder/liquid - depends what you'll use)
3) No body will control you where/when you are (you'll have to make sure to wake up in time not to miss what you have to do - and most importaint - you'll learn when to go to sleep so you won't resemble a zombie the very next morning)
4) Money will become a worry (it will be more importaint to pay the next electric, phone, cable,... bill then to buy that game, those shooes, that sweater,...)
5) You'll start missing the carefree days of your youth (when your biggest worry was that the adoults would finally take you seriously and stopped treating you like a little kid)
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