Scatty how old are you exactly? You seem very sure of yourself considering this subject that what I must do to n stuff, but there are gaping holes in your reasoning dude, no offense
k: I was in this situation earlier, though not this completely. There was a girl that I liked to have very much but she was unsure(3 years earlier), accidentally I pushed on her too much and asked the straight question, of course she denied it and left. In this matter, I agree with Crow. Girls don't like to be pushed around, that I learned so far. Neither do I, but I can handle it for the sake of Gabi
If I was to stand before Gabi "Now choose!" she will certainly be scared and leave me. Getting out of a steady relationship is no easy task even if you know that should be done, believe me I know this
But I think a slow approach could turn the tide to my side... (But I could be utterly wrong
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I have a slight thought that Peter doesn't know a thing beetween me and Gabi other than we are dorm mates and friends. I think he just sitting back knowin Gabi is his "property" and he don't even trying to show love for her, "why bother?" style. I think he is simply too sure of himself. I think that's why my little suggestions and faint actions of love actually seems to work, because there is no counter-spell from Peter
And I think if he finds this thing out he wont be out to "love her back" from me, he would come over and (try to :P)beat the sh!t outta me instead <_< or at least he looks like that kinda kid....
But I think you people's advices are slowly starting to work. She just sent me a PM in the morning: "You woke up yet? I just did B) I started to write this in the evening: Ákos... I just fear you from myself. No matter what you think I don't trust myself and you certainly deserve a more correct girl..." I replyd: "Don't fear for me, and certainly not from yourself
You are the most correct girl I've ever met. To be correct it does not mean that you must stay if it's sh!t for you..."
I called her right after I got it. Her voice changed again, it was smooth and caring like on last Thursday. She giggled more and seemed more liking me. I havent pushed her any more on the phone, I was just nice and gave her all the attention I could give... Maybe something happened? I hope for good this time....