Yes, I guess you're right, I'm too sure of what you have to do. People are all different, and your "style" if I may say so is certainly very patient, persistent and kind, despite occasional blows. Be just as you are and do what you think would work the best, not listen to the many advises from different people here. One has to meet his own decisions earlier or later, and through hard experience gather wisdom. One or another way it will work out between you and her, and I wish you best luck in that. Just don't let her go if you're sure that she's the right one for you and she has nothing against either
