It's nice to see all the different tempers here. We're all great!
k:
You know there was this night at a bar that I really like and there was this girl smiling at me and I couldn't help smiling back... (that was BEFORE my "now"-girlfriend was my girlfriend)
It was tickling in the stomach. We met several times and - well we didn't start anything but that's what I mean by "sometimes you just have to be there". Things will work out.
I was wondering after some similar events: How did I get myself there? How did I get to be in this pleasant situation? And I couldn't find an answer to that.
It just arose on its own. Go out and see what I mean.
AND it always happens if you reckon it the least.