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Originally posted by Sebatianos@Dec 7 2004, 09:25 AM
But I guess all of us must be able to deal with our fears - but prefer to avoid them. If you have the fear of hights (as an example) you will avoid high places... But that doesn't mean you'll die of fear if suddenly you are stuck on top of a tree (don't ask me how you got there). You'll be forced to overcome your fear. Not pleasent but necesary and it halps if someone is there to lend you a helping hand.
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Yes, you're right about it.
But it's a different thing if you will go on and start to fight the fear when there's real need to do that, or simply
continue to avoid it and the situation where it will be asked to fight it and to be victorious, because you don't have enough courage for it. Even when there's someone that offers to help you. Even if it would destroy something important to you because you avoid it...