Please help - Brother is 30 something virgin
My brother and I were big nerds all our lives playing D&D and master of magic type games. His childhood was harder than mine and he became an escapist and dreamer - the kind of person who reads a book in a day or spends a lot of time playing skyrim. I always wanted to be socially accepted by the same and opposite sex. I got this by working on my social skills and lifting weights. My brother is still doing the same dumb s- he's been doing since he was 10 or 12 years old, playing dungeons and dragons style games and keeping to himself. I should say before I sound too judgey he's much better than me at keeping a job and having a career. I don't think i'm inherently "better" than him.
I need to know what I can do to help him. Please don't tell me to mind my own business, he's going to be a 40 year old virgin without intervention. I know that on this site there are some older virgins or people who lost their virginity at an older age. Is online dating going to be his best bet like the geek to geek site?
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