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[Iron_Scarecrow]

I kind of know how you feel. Just make sure you keep eating.

I'm sorry things didn't work out for you.

[gregor]

Originally posted by Maikel@Feb 7 2006, 11:07 AM
My girlfriend dumped my right before I started at my graduation project and we where 5 years together. 2 weeks later, she got together with a friend of me which was living across my street.

believe it or not, we got back together later on, and even worse, it's better now then before.

Love can suck bigtime, and the five months we where seperated weren't even bad for me, I had the time of my life. But I do not regret being back together again.

The guy is NOT a friend of me anymore though :whistle:

This is Jerry Springer material... LOL

[Maikel]

nah not really, I would need to have a mullet and there is not enough bad blood to make it entertaining

[Playbahnosh]

Nothing is lost yet... I still haven't met her... but I still don't know what to say when I do... What should I say to her? I just can't tell her to fukk off... I love her too much...

[Scatty]

You prefer to be a slipper that belongs to her and that she can use whenever she feels for it? Gather yourself and do it, remember that she doesn't seem to love you as much as you do. Not "f**k off", no need to be rude, but tell her simply that you'll leave her as she doesn't seem to love you, finished.

[Playbahnosh]

Jeeez guys, you will hate me now Things are happening again. Yesterday evening two of my friends and me went to eat and I called Gabi if she wanted to come, so she came too. After we arrived back to the dorm, me and Gabi went to her room. Her roommate was not there(luck ). We spent a great evening together, in my arms. We almost gone to bed too, but she was too tired seemingly.

Well, the situation seems helpless, at least to me. She agreed on another meeting tonight when we will actually talk too. I don't now... I'm more confused than ever. Um... I have a feeling that she looks at me as her lover, the third party. Never been in a situation like this, so I have no idea what to do really. She said that she and Peter have problems and that relationship is on the edge, but she and Peter got used to each other so she can't get outta that relationship "just like that". I feel she feels for Peter as a good friend now... but the the thing *she* kissed me yestersay.... well, I don't know...

[Sebatianos]

Well, I fear that a heart will get broken soon (and unfortunately it's going to be yours). Did yoou ever get a feeling she's trying to avoid talking to you about serious stuff?

If so, she might be thinking of a way to easily let you know you should be the one to go away. She might be regreting ever meeting you, because now she doesn't know how to stop playing with your feelings and she has no idea how to get rid of you.

Again, I may be completely wrong, but the possibility is there.

[Playbahnosh]

Originally posted by Sebatianos@Feb 8 2006, 09:57 AM
...now she doesn't know how to stop playing with your feelings and she has no idea how to get rid of you...

...and I won't tell either If she was so easy to fall in love with (and fall in love with me), she must face the consequences. Either a great heartache or great plesure. I'm determined to get this thing through. One thing is for sure she won't play with another persons feelings I can assure you that k: I'm not the evil kind of guy, I just want justice...

[Sebatianos]

That's all good and everything, I just don't want to see you get hurt (even more).

[Playbahnosh]

okay.... this night was weird.... at least from my angle...
First we went out to eat chinese, after that she came over at around midnight... We were talking a feeling good, she kissed me again more times...

than things got strange again... I paddled to dangerous waters and started to object my opinions about the matter... to cut the long story short, she officially dumped me... but this is a paradox since we never got together LOL... she said she is sorry that this thing happened like this and she simply lured me into this...

And you know what I did? showed her this thread all of it

I got some interesting facts for you:
- she is together with Peter for more than one year.
- she is 5 years older than me not 4

she corrected these...

Anyway, after she "dumped" me we had a little talk over some tea... just 5 hours long as it turned out... I still don't get it... why is she still so attracted to me? I mean, if I really wanted to I could kiss her. I caressed her face for about 5 mins and she seemed so content about thatm she haven't even tried to pull away... I said to her that this could still work someday, don't rush anything. She replied "But I just dumped you" with a smile, and I said "I don't care" with a smile...

She dumped me that third time now, and I don't even bothered about that. Normally one is too much, but for her I'll do anthing Maybe this will be the stupidest thing I ever done, or the most wonderful...

When she was leaving I said to her
"Why do we have to lose what we have already archived?"
"um...I don't put my nose beside yours? that's what?"
"uh...for example "
"You know what... I go to sleep and after that I will "

I'm even more confused. So she tried to send me away for sure. She tried to be angry at me she told me, but she didn't succeded at that She said it would be much easier to just get angry at me and leave me for sure, but she just can't do that

So I guess this is a matter that the future will solve. Maybe when she brakes up with Peter, I'll get a chance If not, well I still have my computer here...

First of all I'd like to thank you for your cooperation in this matter. However it is not closed yet. Thanks for the 100+ posts and the company k: you are great people k:

I will post here now and then so stay tuned k: