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[Neon Knight]

Indeed, any kind of relationship that you can have with her from this moment on will not last for long. She can't go back with his boyfriend and she'll probably hates you because of this thread.

I have to agree with Pie here, but it was not because of your actions, but your lack thereof (as lack of them, my english is not very good). So far you've waited for her to decide when she was not in a position to do it, she was simply not ready (and you didn't help her, except when you saw the posibility of her going back to you). But now that the muck has hit the fan she will have to.

Most likely she will try to go back to her boyfriend and dump you, but that's just me.

[Grinder]

Originally posted by Neon Knight@Feb 9 2006, 07:23 PM
Her boyfriend will be pissed, that's for sure.

You bet he is. I'm sorry to tell you this, Playbahnosh, but I don't think this will ever work. He'll probably read the whole thread, and get into a fight with her. Did he know about her seven temptations? If not, he'll have read it here for the first time, and that is sure to hurt him - big time.
They'll probably even break up or something. And I honestly don't think she's gonna come to you the minute they broke up - if they do. This is not working out. Don't put your hopes up. You're just gonna be hurt again.

[Playbahnosh]

Okay, to cut the long story short again, Peter didn't read the whole thread, just read in the first post if any, or at least this is what Gabi said on the corridor. Peter was simply surprised that Gabi posts to forums or something and probably read the first few lines of my first post which is not very informative in this matter. Believe me if he would read the whole thread I would be the first to know

And why do you think Gabi is upset because of this thread? It is my own choice who do I turn for help, and given the fact this is the goddam best forum on the world with helpful people I decided to come here to let it out and ask for opinions She read the whole thread from the beginning to the end and she doesn't seemed upset about it, she was more like surprised and curious. And while she was at it, she corrected some facts I did wrong.

I don't know maybe she will register and post her own opinion about this whole matter, I don't know

And I told you guys already, if I was out to ruin her life for sure, I could've done it much more easier. I could walk up to Peter and tell this little story of mine then leave. Why bother making this thread and pretend to be just asking for help? Nah, I'm uncapable of such an act. I simply couldn't do it if I wanted. I REALLY care for her, I do! If I want to do something is caressing her again once more, not hurting her...

She is not here in the dorm now, but she doesn't seemed annoyed at me on the corridor... she even proposed a game of Neverwinter Nights in her latest PM...

[Scatty]

See, she proposed to play with you Neverwinter Nights. How serious is that? It's pretty obvious that she tries to create some distance between you and her, a "good-friends" behaviour. If you still hope that she'll come to you one day then you either don't see or don't want to see.
The best thing you can do now is to abandon all hopes that she'll ever live with you together and to be to her like she is to you - a good friend only. Otherwise you just make yourself looking to others like a fool, no offense. To me it seems anyway that she's many sizes higher than you in the knowledge and understanding of love and sees all the threads and ways of it, while you do not. It is you who'll be hurt in the end, she already created enough distance for herself to not being hurted, and she will keep to her friend no matter if she'll cheat on him again or not, but that's up to him to tolerate that.
She made it herself clear to you that she doesn't want to be with you together. If you have some proudness in yourself, be a man and leave her.

[Playbahnosh]

Hey, Neverwinter Nights is a serious thing... Okay, I know what you are saying, I know that she is keeping her distance and don't want to hear about getting together with me as my girlfriend. But the fact that she had seroius problems leaving me, that means that something actually WAS beetween us, if not mutual love but something similar anyways. She herself agreed to that today. I told her that she couldn't dump me because we havent even came together, and she protested that something WAS beetween us. It was not me who said it, she was.
Anyway, I WON'T lose hope, that's the worst thing a man can do. She has a special place in my heart and will remain there, but I won't bug her any further. If sometime she acually comes back, I will be here. I will live my life, go to class and everything, life does not stop now. Even though she won't come together with me we spent and spending some quality time together if it is a movie or just a talk over some popcorn. I thought she will be the one for me....well not...

You said that she is much higher in knowlegde than me... well she herself said that she can't bust up the things I say because I'm just wiser than she is, she herself said that. That she can only bust up some minor things I say not the big ones. Of course I believe she has much more first handed relationship experience than me, that's true. I can only go for my knowledge I gathered by observing relationships along the years. I know I was too high to see things in this matter, well...yeah...

[pink cloud OFF]
[reasoning ON]
k:

Maybe I confused our mutual friendship for something else. But she herself said that something was beetween us. She is drawn to me for whatever reason I cannot understand no matter how much I think about it. She saw something in me, but I don't get what is it.

She made it herself clear to you that she doesn't want to be with you together.

No dude, she said she can't leave Peter. She actually said that if she could somehow cut this Peter phase out of her life, she will actually come with me. But I guess I missed that bus, so why moan on the past? (Yeah, time is linear....the sonofa**** :ranting: ) Well I guess this is a good example of how NOT TO do it I blew my chance, so be it... As I told you, I book the loss and leave... no hard feellings... (jeeez who am I lying to )

She gone home for today but will be back on the evening... she said she will come over for a movie... I don't know if she will actually come over, but I don't expect more than a good talk and some popcorn, like two weeks earlier....

I feel empty... like when you are fighting for reach a goal and the goal suddenly vanishes... ....hhh... I don't know what to say really...

Here, this is a song I like, HERE are the lyrics, I'm sorry I can't post the song too but that would be illegal I think. it is Red Hot Chilli Pappers - Under The Bridge...

[Chuck the plant]

Originally posted by Playbahnosh@Feb 10 2006, 02:23 PM
She actually said that if she could somehow cut this Peter phase out of her life, she will actually come with me.

It's not that hard to make promises one's not ever going to have to fulfill...

Yes, maybe there WAS more than friendship. But "more than friendship" does not equal "love". And most likely, it won't become "love", either.

[Neon Knight]

Well, you are only 20 after all, and this was the first girl that actually showed some love for a change. Besides, that "I will get her, no matter what" it's more common that you think.

[Fawfulhasfury]

Man, I am sorry I've missed this topic for so long. Its time for Faw Advice. #1. Keep trying and don't listen to the blimeys who say" She ahtes you wants you to die and wants to dump you so that you never get happy again". #2. If the bf is in the way just go to his room and kill him in a gory bloody manner befitting the Mansons. (i'm joking here <) Actually, maybe one of the reasons she hasn't broken up with him, is she mayeb afraid of him? He seems like one of thos epopular, this has to be geeky crap, this is coo,l I'll stick with it kind of guy. and not too right. Boith of these are stemmed form the fact that he didn't finish reading your post. why, probably because its "forums" and forums are geeky, and he shouldn't read them. #3. She is a temptress, BUT I do think she loves you. My advice, FAWS ADVICE: Keep trying, ya snooze ya lose, whoever smelt it dealt it. Don't listen to any crap. Try to filter out the crap, and get rid of it. Shes probably testing you with all of this, and so far you're doiung a lousy job of making the grade. You are still scrambling to get up that rope, but instead of using the rope, walk around the wall. Instead of trying to melt the ice, skate over it. Instead of swimming through the rapids, walk on water. And if you can figure out all this crud, you can most certainly figure her out.

[Chuck the plant]

Yeah man, listen to the man with the plan, the one who's most likely to have seen it all. k:

[Playbahnosh]

@Fawful

Maaan, that is some radical stuff Well, to tell the truth I'm kinda finished with this situation for now. I'm working on getting back on track with the school and other stuff I neglected because of this. If you had posted this stuff earlier, that would be some color to the painting k:

@on topic

Well guys, concerning the matter at hand, I don't know but I don't think I tell you what happened tonight. You will certainly go "this guy is plain stupid" or something. And you certainly don't want to know the 18+ stuff :P Anyway, I think things are slowly falling in place and time will solve the rest. As for now, I just hold on to what I have and hope for more later...