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[Sebatianos]

You get them yes, both by dance and art contests (but the question was with which work or classes can you do it - that's why I didn't mention it).

The art contest contributes less social points, but there are some to be had, where the dance also (if you win) gets you the Lady Ring which also boosts you refinement (further increasing the social points).

Also by sending her to many poetry classes (just be careful - everything that raises her sensitivity may turn her away from fighting).