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[Blood-Pigggy]

It's not that she wouldn't stay with me for long, it's that the reason that she was in a relationship with me in the first place wasn't the best thing to hear.

[Mighty Midget]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Ghost @ Jun 8 2007, 07:27 PM) [snapback]293570[/snapback]</div>

Is it more experience in relationships that you mean? Or more insight? With more experience, you can see that coming. She has had alot of guys before and is not the kind of girl that will stay with one guy often. This can be because of one of many reasons from being insecure to loving to mess with you. If it is insight there is no problem with it.
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Excuse me but this is one load of hooey. Experience implies she's "not the kind of girl that will stay with one guy [often]" because she's "insecure"? No, it doesn't. What if she paid attention and gave her [failed?) relationships a thought or always ended up with a potbelly bastard? I never hear talk about "experienced" guys being insecure. It may be because of that, but no way am I going to accept an "experienced" woman is, (almost by definition) an "easy come easy go" kind of woman.

[Ghost]

"I heard you had a small youknow and wanted to see if it was true" LOL That is not something you want to hear LOL

_r.u.s.s. such girls have a reputation. It pays to pay attention to these. That is one of the worst reasons they can have for getting in a relationship. Men know what girl does that. If you do not, get to learn more about the girls in your neighborhood first. I never did understand why people get in a relationship with somebody they do not know well yet.

[_r.u.s.s.]

my buddy was in relationship with his girlfriend (who is younger than him, closer to chosen) for a year already. and they were friends togther for 2 years before too. and she is a very good person, and also loves him. but guess what happened 2 months ago?

[Blood-Pigggy]

Um, I'd rather you not make fun of me, that's really hurtful, and no that wasn't the reason either.

I don't like you.

[Ghost]

Excuse me but this is one load of hooey. Experience implies she's "not the kind of girl that will stay with one guy [often]" because she's "insecure"? No, it doesn't. What if she paid attention and gave her [failed?) relationships a thought or always ended up with a potbelly bastard? I never hear talk about "experienced" guys being insecure. It may be because of that, but no way am I going to accept an "experienced" woman is, (almost by definition) an "easy come easy go" kind of woman.[/b]

Read what I said again. I did not say that is the only reason. It is a reason, but not necessarily the reason for that girl. I have known a few girls who have had a new boyfriend every week. They were nice girls and not sluts. They were insecure and could not stand being alone. They go for the loudest guys who cheat on them and they then drop them for it and become even more insecure. Eventually they will even think the guy is cheating or doing something else bad even if he is a good guy who treats her right.

[Mighty Midget]

Ghost, I believe girls have the same reasons to mess around as we guys have. Nothing more, nothing less. A girl running around will get the same respect as a guy running around, but I will not call a girl a s.l.u.t. even if she messes around like a kid in a candy store. Well, not until someone comes up with a word like that for the guys running around.

[_r.u.s.s.]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Ghost @ Jun 8 2007, 07:40 PM) [snapback]293584[/snapback]</div>

Read what I said again. I did not say that is the only reason. It is a reason, but not necessarily the reason for that girl. I have known a few girls who have had a new boyfriend every week. They were nice girls and not sluts. They were insecure and could not stand being alone. They go for the loudest guys who cheat on them and they then drop them for it and become even more insecure. Eventually they will even think the guy is cheating or doing something else bad even if he is a good guy who treats her right.
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not sluts? funny. and can you imagine how did guys feel? did the girls have special privileges or something? that they felt 'insecure' isnt any *beeping* excuse, just a self-pitying.

[Ghost]

Some do. Some do not. You might not see this now, but you might see it eventually. You are free to believe what you want. I know what I know. I will leave it at that.

[_r.u.s.s.]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Ghost @ Jun 8 2007, 07:45 PM) [snapback]293589[/snapback]</div>

I know what I know.
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what a constructive argument=P